Reinforcing the Gospel Message Using Questions

questionGuitar? Check.

Coloring Sheets? Check.

Gold Fish Crackers? Check.

I could go on, but needless to say, sometimes the list of items needed for a children’s Sunday School Class can be quite long. As I run out the door, I mentally check off the items in my head to make sure I have everything. It is easy to have a preparation checklist for tangible items, but what about intangible things?

There are two things young children love: asking questions and being asked questions. Many questions are made up on the spot, a very natural way to do it. However, when talking to children about the gospel it is essential also to have a list of important evangelistic questions we can fall back on.

Especially with young children, asking questions can be one of the best ways to get the gospel message across. Furthermore, when we begin encouraging children to answer questions about the gospel in front of their peers, we are beginning the process of training them to share Christ with each other. Read more

Four Topics for Conversation Starters

question_02I am amazed at the numerous amounts of conversation starters I’ve seen all over the web. If you look on Pinterest, there are even printable charts with questions to ask your children each year on their birthdays. Building relationships with people is an essential part of reaching them with the gospel, and showing our care. For those of us who are not naturally gifted in making conversation, this can be very helpful. But instead of thinking in terms of “specific questions,” I suggest thinking in terms of topics.

It might be helpful to look through a list of questions, but you don’t have to memorize a long list of them. Instead, consider a few important topics such as family, school, weekly activities, or spiritual things. Then try to ask questions from one of these areas. Read more

Tips for Developing the Art of Asking Questions

In keeping with this week’s theme of dialoguing with children via questions, I am also reposting some of my other fun posts for blogs.bible.org. The following originally appeared here:

Her glossy red hair matched the twinkle in her eyes, but she stood hesitantly at the classroom door gently tugging on her mother’s dress. Her eyes seemed to say, Do I have to stay here? “What a lovely bow on your dress! It matches your green eyes,” gushed the teacher. As the mother left and more parents came, more comments ensued. “What lovely braids!” “Awesome superhero shoes!” “I love your sparkly headband!”  Read more

Conversation Starters with Kids

Today I am blogging over at blogs.bible.org about conversation starters with kids. Here is what I shared:

Whether you have kids, or you teach kids, or you just simply know kids, questions come in handy.

If you’ve ever struggled with getting to know a child better, perhaps some of the following questions may work as great conversation starters.

Questions about Their Day or Week (depending on how long it has been since you saw them last):

  • What’s the best thing that happened to you this week?
  • Do you have any funny stories from school today?

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Waiting on God When We Lack Answers

Part of the reason I went to Bible school was to grow in my love and knowledge of God. Part of the reason I decided to go on to seminary was to get more answers. But, to be honest, though seminary provided some answers, it also produced more questions.

Habakkuk shows us what it’s like to wrestle with God over difficult questions and how to express our sorrow in worshipful lament. Read more